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This Detail Matters

You learn a lot as you go along in this professional writing business. Most of the time the learning is instinctual, and occasionally you’re asked to codify it for an article or an audience. It’s an uncomfortable process, and then you find that whatever you’ve picked up in the writing school of hard clich├ęs was said years ago by Stephen King.

Here is one thing that I’ve never heard before, and like the irritating click baiter I long to be, I’m going to put it after the jump. Continue reading “This Detail Matters”

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Making God Giggle

If you want to make God laugh, they say, tell Him your plans. This week, God clearly had taken advantage of His omnipresence to sneak a peek into my diary and work some mischief.

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SEO What?

I admit it: search engine optimisation (SEO) is a mystery to me. Google has created a strange new economy, where words are currency, and the glittering prizes are the top few rankings on a search. I’m not sure that many people Google ‘speaker coach’ – but if they do, I want to be up there.

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Swellboy Blog in FT How To Spend It Magazine

If you’ve landed here following the link from the FT How To Spend It Swellboy blog, then welcome!

Check out the coaching tab on the left, or simply drop me a line to ianhawkins@live.com and we’ll talk about your coaching needs and how I can help. I’ve worked with some of the best in the business at look forward to adding you to that exclusive club!

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Coaching Attitudes in Real Life

It’s always a tense moment, when the creative meets the clients, they all sit down, and the clients see for the first time what they are paying for. This morning, N and I for once were the clients.

The creative was Tamlyn Hall from Top Left Design who presented an idea we immediately liked. Top Left are in a new office, and credit has to go to Tamlyn for steering away from the psychedelia the paint fumes were inducing in me by the time we left.

This positive first impression didn’t stop us spending nearly two hours going through the home page, tweaking a colour here, a button there. Website copy is not something I’m normally comfortable with: it takes hours to come up with a sentence that captures the attention of the reader. A website is only the top of a huge pyramid of time, money, and stretched nerves.

If a website doesn’t work, it’s a huge waste of resources. If it does work, it’s a brilliant tool, so it’s worth getting right. In my experience, as soon as you start piling on the pressure, the creativity flies out of the window. When we design a website – or anything else – we shouldn’t worry about failure during the process. ‘Rehearsals,’ I was always told, ‘are where you get it wrong.’ This is such a reversal on most thinking. We are always told to get it 100% correct, right first time, failure is not an option. To quote Peter Cook: ‘I have learned from my mistakes and can repeat them exactly.’

Nobody in business, or indeed life, who you admire, is likely to have found their way into your affection by means of a straight, uninterrupted road signposted with achievements.

So as we batted ideas about, I did what I felt comfortable doing: throwing in the occasional idea, some good, some not, and keeping the mood of the meeting playful. The website went from a promising first draft to a marvellous finished product via an embarrassment of bad ideas, some of which I’m proud to have created between my very own two ears. But bad ideas often trigger good ones, and we got there in the end.

I once coached a speaker who was doing everything wrong – and his colleagues let him know it. I took the attitude that a positive instruction will always be more powerful than a negative one. ‘Stop shuffling your feet,’ said one unhelpful colleague (thus focussing the speaker’s attention on his busy legs). ‘Relax and take a firm stance,’ I said, an hour later, to considerably greater effect.

When we think about what we positively want to do, we give ourselves half a chance of achieving it. When we focus on what we don’t want to do, we may avoid the pitfalls we see, but that doesn’t make a good speaker, or website, or [your project here]. If you do everything right, you should be too busy to manage doing much wrong.

Now I have to write some copy for this website. I look forward to coming up with a first draft bereft of any merit whatsoever. You won’t see it.

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